This weekend I will have been married to Ren. Man for 13 years (together for 16).
There are few things Im entirely certain of in my life, but one is we’d not still be together if I hadnt entered this union loving myself first.
If I can impart one thing to you today it is that.
Think it.
Write it.
Live it.
OWN IT.
Please to share below why you love yourself right now.
Rightinthismoment.
Why, should you never change a hair on your head or the number on that horrible hunk of metal the scale, you would *still* adore the person you are today.
One commenter shall receive the I HEART Myself item of his/her choice from my lovely shop.
winner announced 1.11.10
entire universe eligible.
Gretchen says
January 8, 2010 at 2:20 amI have a wonderful, loud, no-holds-barred laugh. And I laugh really easily – it doesn’t take much to make me crack a smile. I once was told I’m “good for other people’s self esteem” because I laugh at their jokes even if they’re really dumb.
sara says
January 8, 2010 at 2:26 ami love myself because while i have fought with myself, i have never, ever, given up on myself.
266 says
January 8, 2010 at 3:05 amOh… great post! Happy anniversary to you and your hubby; I love the pic of you and the Tornado, by the way!
I love myself because I work hard to bring joy into the lives of others; I know that I am making a difference on this big blue spinning ball!
moonduster (Becky) says
January 8, 2010 at 3:32 amHappy anniversary to you and your husband.
I love myself because I’m capable of empathy for others, I am a good and loving mommy, I am capable of achieving great things when I put my mind to it, and I have an interesting imagination.
Gemfit says
January 8, 2010 at 4:00 amHappy anniversary!
I love my laugh. I love that I’m growing more and more confident in my cooking. I love that my muscles ache from exercise. I love that I embrace change, even when I’m scared #$&*less. I love that I’m strong inside and getting stronger outside.
FLG says
January 8, 2010 at 4:28 amAwwwww! Yay! Happy Anniversary for this weekend! 🙂
I love myself because I can listen to music and not just appreciate it, but interact with it, extract things other people can’t hear, and impart some of myself into it even when it’s not mine.
Cindie says
January 8, 2010 at 4:35 amHappy Anniversary! May you have many, many more wonderful years together!
I love myself because I’m not afraid to say what I think and I’ll make it known if I disagree. I love myself because I’m good at what I do, and others recognize it even though I don’t toot my own horn. I love myself because I’ve made so many positive changes in my health over the last 2 1/2 years.
Bea says
January 8, 2010 at 4:42 amI would totally have mocked the importance of this idea when I was younger, Miz.
You are right and not just in romantic relationships.
I needed to love myself before I could even be a good FRIEND.
And that’s why I love myself now—-I AM A GREAT FRIEND.
Happy anniversary!
Yum Yucky says
January 8, 2010 at 4:50 amI love that I’m corny. Corny-ness is runnin’ thru my veins! And I can laugh at the slightest funny thing, even if other people think it not so worthy of a chuckle.
Sometimes I laugh so hard I can’t breathe and I feel like I’m doing laughing-abs exercises. That is the best of all….
I’m going to keep on laughing. Even if others don’t get the joke.
Helen says
January 8, 2010 at 4:52 am(I’m not following directions :))
I love the picture and wonder if I could even walk around wearing that tee shirt or if I would need to tell everyone “Its kind of a joke” or somehting.
Sad huh?
MrsFatass says
January 8, 2010 at 5:09 amUm, you have a SHOP??? (come on, payday, come on!)
I love myself because I never give up.
Happy Happy Happy anniversary. And I totally want to hang the picture of you and The Tornado on MY fridge because it’s that cute.
Nan says
January 8, 2010 at 5:12 amI WANT SOME OF THOSE I LOVE MYSELF PINS.
(stops shouting)
I need to buy bags of them 🙂 as I want to pass them out to random strangers.
Very cool, Mizzy.
I love myself because I am me and I’m all I have.
BigFatPie says
January 8, 2010 at 5:23 amI love me because I am beautiful in the truest sense of the word (and it has taken a BLOODY long time to be able to say that and not cringe….)
Miz says
January 8, 2010 at 5:28 amTHANKS for the kind wishes and for playing along at home.
I can not stress enough how, for me, the SELF LOVE came first and THEN I shed the el bees.
I KNOW that is the reason why it has been 16 years and I havent looked back.
Nan? I have a plethora of pins in my purse (ahh alliteration. I love ye) and pass them out to RANDOM people all the time purely to see their reactions.
hmm.
methinks thats a post in and of itself.
Jessica says
January 8, 2010 at 5:34 amI love myself because I am really strong. I love my muscle, even tho it turns other women off.
Eria says
January 8, 2010 at 5:43 amTalk about a fun giveaway. I LOVE that tshirt. I love myself because I am incredibly dedicated. I can do pretty much anything I put my mind/body into!
Nettie says
January 8, 2010 at 5:44 amIve wanted that tee since I saw it here and had NO IDEA you had a store.
I need the tee.
This morning I can not think of one reason 🙁
Happy anniversary.
Joanna Sutter says
January 8, 2010 at 5:47 amI love myself because I’ve been able to coach my friends through challenging times with their careers even WHEN I WANTED TO TELL THEM TO SUCK IT UP AND BE GRATEFUL THAT THEY HAVE A JOB. That is all.
Happy Anniversary!
Valerie says
January 8, 2010 at 5:51 amFirst of all, happy anniversary!! What a wonderful thing to celebrate; I hope you have something wonderful planned. 🙂
In reading this and thinking “Why do I love myself?” I’ve discovered something. I can think of a lot of things I love *about* myself – something that definitely wasn’t always true! – but none of them are really *why* I love myself. At the end of the day, I love myself just because I’m me. There are lots of people I adore and admire and emulate, but I really can’t imagine wanting to be anyone but me. Not because I’m perfect or better than anyone else, but because I’ve finally realized I don’t have to be those things to deserve love. I’m worth loving without being perfect.
It feels so good to have finally reached a place where I don’t feel I need an excuse for loving me, nor do I feel I need to apologize for it, and I can be happy for other people who love themselves. 🙂 That makes it so much easier to accept that it’s possible for someone else to really love me, and not be constantly waiting for them to come to their senses and realize how unloveable I really am.
And I couldn’t agree more that the best way to succeed in a relationship is to first love yourself at least as much as you’d like the other person to love you. I’d even venture to say you need to love yourself as much as you love *them*…
Have a wonderful weekend and anniversary!
V.
Valerie says
January 8, 2010 at 5:54 amOh, and as for the shop? Thank God I finally paid off all my debt, because I’m doing some serious shopping…I think my daughters and I need matching sets of EVERYTHING. 🙂
V.
Jenna says
January 8, 2010 at 5:56 amI <3 MYSELF because I am me…and I am still learning new things about me every single day.
Jill Davidson says
January 8, 2010 at 6:09 amA specific reason why I (heart) myself is that through the years, I’ve always slept great. It’s funny that sometimes food and my relationship to it seems like such a mystery (that I am investigating) but sleep is easy. I know it’s not for many people. I think there’s an analogy there, that food could be easy, without thinking too hard or too consciously, as I develop the basic habits I’ve built around sleep. Wow, big topic! Did not expect. Will carry on w/ these thoughts on my own blog space.
Happy anniversary, and cute shirt!
Andrew(AJH) says
January 8, 2010 at 6:10 amI love myself because I think I might be able to see an abdominal (maybe, I’m not sure) 🙂
Sarah says
January 8, 2010 at 6:16 amI love myself because I no matter what I always speak my mind. I have no filter what so ever. It tends to get me in trouble but that is just who I am.
Happy Anniversary!!
Trish @IamSucceeding says
January 8, 2010 at 6:27 amFIRST Happy Anniversary MizFit and RenMan!! woo hoo!
Second…now I will answer your question…
“…you would *still* adore the person you are today”
I am worth it!
Alice says
January 8, 2010 at 6:32 amI am so much stronger than I ever thought. Even when I left my abusive ex husband, I was ok. Stressed, but ok. When he challenged me for custody and drained my resources, I was still ok. When I lost my job and thought I might not make rent, I was still ok. Even now, when my beloved piece of crap has died and I can’t afford a new car and have to rent a car to see my children…I’m still ok. I’m so strong.
Also, I am a badass cook. 😛
Katy says
January 8, 2010 at 6:56 amI love myself because even if I’m alone in a room, I can make myself laugh. Life is stressful, and times are tough. But after years of work, I truly enjoy my own company! I’m one funny chick!
Natalia Burleson says
January 8, 2010 at 6:57 amHappy Anniversary!
I have a lot of self deprecating humor so I’ll leave that out and be serious….Hmm why I love myself, I’d have to say because I am strong. I survived a childhood filled with alcoholism and verbal abuse and border line abandonment. I love myself because I realize that without that childhood I wouldn’t have developed into the person I am today. Funny, resilient, strong, creative, empathetic, …just me, not another one out there exactly like me!
Thanks for being you! 🙂
Natalia Burleson says
January 8, 2010 at 7:00 amp.s. Thank you for this post because I have to say that I haven’t really taken the time to sit and think about what I love about me. I spend a lot of time thinking about what needs to be changed, it was quite refreshing to reflect and realize that there are a lot of good things about me that are fine just the way they are. No fine tuning needed! 🙂
Gena says
January 8, 2010 at 7:01 amCongratulations, Miz and RenMan!
I love myself because I have made it through some really tough times and managed to stay intact. Despite those obstacles, I’ve accomplished more than I ever thought I could and I’m very proud of myself.
POD says
January 8, 2010 at 7:06 amI love myself because I am setting an example for ‘the others.’
POD says
January 8, 2010 at 7:07 amPlus I am so consummately lovable.
Happy Anniversary.
Love,
POD
Jamie says
January 8, 2010 at 7:18 amComments are worth as much again as the post. Thanks, all, for sharing.
I was lucky enough to have a mentor in college who helped (forced/coerced/strong-armed) me to love myself. Of course, a big part of that was coming to terms with my sexuality. I guess it’s hard to really love yourself until you really know yourself. Prior to that, I derived most of my worth (and my identity) from the things that I did, i.e. “I am a keyboardist”; “I am an artist”; “I am a Christian.” As we started to peel those things away, I realized that I didn’t have any concrete, centered identity apart from what I did. Does everyone go through that same process?
At any rate, I feel confident in saying that I love me because I am me. And I am worthy of love. Everything else comes and goes (for example, I’m not particularly in love with my eating habits, right now). But my own worth doesn’t change.
Sagan says
January 8, 2010 at 7:19 amHappy Anniversary!
It’s a funny thing. A few years ago I fell in love with a guy, we were together for a year, and then he abruptly dumped me without warning. I fell into depression and had some disordered eating issues, and immediately rebounded by getting into another almost year-long relationship with another guy who was incredibly negative and emotionally abusive and only worsened my issues.
So I took some time for myself- another year or so- and explored my own issues, staying away from the idea of entering into another relationship. I started addressing the problems I was having and dealing with them on my own, knowing that there was no way I could be with someone if I didn’t resolve my issues first and LOVE MYSELF first.
The VERY DAY that I realized I’d done enough work on my own and that I was OPEN to being with someone again, and ABLE to love someone else for the simple fact that I love MYSELF again, I met someone and we fell for each other within about an hour of meeting each other.
Really.
And now we’ve been together for only just over two months and I am incredibly happy.
I love myself because I didn’t need to rely on someone else to fix my problems. I love myself because I was capable of resolving my issues. I love myself because I’ve come out that much stronger for having gone through that whole mess, and I love myself because now I’m able to really love other people.
Tiffany says
January 8, 2010 at 7:23 amI love myself because I am strong and surprise myself all the time with the things I can accomplish successfully. Whether is was running in my first 5 and 10k’s or giving a huge presentation, I always doubted myself. But I surpassed my greatest expectations each and every time.
Happy anniversary!
carolinebee says
January 8, 2010 at 7:27 amHmm i love that I strive to see the best in other people 🙂
Great pic and Happy Annivers MIz!!
Tracey @ I'm Not Superhuman says
January 8, 2010 at 7:30 amFirst off, happy anniversary!
I love myself (man, that’s hard to say) because I work extremely hard and never give up. It’s easy to see that in my work, but I was most surprised to see that quality in the rehabbing of my knee injury. I’ve been much more persistent in discovering the source of my pain and more dogged about healing it than I would have imagined.
Christieo says
January 8, 2010 at 7:35 amHAPPY ANNIVERSARY MIZ! how wonderful! i too agree about how important it is to love yourself in marriage, we would definitely NOT be as happy as a couple as we are right now. I love myself because I found myself. She’s giving, she’s funny, and she’s capable of anything. She’s actually pretty damn cool.
Gigi says
January 8, 2010 at 7:52 amI love myself because I’m funny as hell and can make all the people I love laugh too.
Happy Anniversary to you and the Ren Man!! The Tornado has some excellent role models!
Melody says
January 8, 2010 at 7:59 amI love myself because I tell it like it is. I don’t hang out with peeps that bring me down. I surround myself with good,not evil….AND Im doing a bang up job with our two kids! They rock my world.
Happy Annivesary!
Irene aka FitHungryGurl says
January 8, 2010 at 8:02 amHAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!!
I love myself because I am nearly work through my fears. I am willing to try anything twice. I don’t cower in the corner when I am afraid. I hit my fears head on.
Marianne says
January 8, 2010 at 8:02 amI’m ok….
But…a purse…you…a purse? does it match your shoes?
Rachael says
January 8, 2010 at 8:03 amI love myself because I never give up on myself or the people I care about.
Lori (Finding Radiance) says
January 8, 2010 at 8:03 amThat picture is the.best.ever. Love it!
I love myself because I am radiant 😀
Jules - Big Girl Bombshell says
January 8, 2010 at 8:05 amFirst of all, Happy Anniversary!
I love myself, right now, in this moment, because I can!
I will be 49 in a couple of weeks and have finally been hit in the head enough times to GET that I have a choice! This is the year, I will LIVE my life. I will no longer let my weight and size hold me back because of other’s comments or opinions!
Lizzie says
January 8, 2010 at 8:07 amAs you showed me I am enough. Period.
And you need a sidebar link to your store!
‘Shop mizfit’ or something.
Leah J. Utas says
January 8, 2010 at 8:13 amI love myself because no matter what is going on in my life, who I am with, whomever else loves me or not, I am all I’ve got.
Stepfanie from SparkPeople says
January 8, 2010 at 8:23 amIf only everyone would learn this lesson before getting into a serious relationship! Looking outward for love and self-worth solves nothing. I grew up in a small town, and I saw plenty of teenage girls get pregnant just so that they’d always have someone around who loved them. It’s so sad.
You make this world a better place, MizFit. Way to go!
Zandria says
January 8, 2010 at 8:31 amI admire you a lot…you’re a role model! I love your dedication to fitness, how you impart that to your daughter, and also your relationship with RenMan seems pretty awesome. Happy anniversary!
I love myself because tomorrow I’m moving into an apartment by myself. I can pay all the bills, and my social life will keep me from getting bored.
Paige says
January 8, 2010 at 8:32 amI love myself because I have inner strength that helps me get through anything and everything!
Brandi says
January 8, 2010 at 8:33 amI LOVE myself because I am strong, independent, and have the ability to see the potential in myself.
I LOVE myself because my parents raised into a wonderful human being who is turned off by selfish people and is compassionate to those who are hurt by selfishness.
I LOVE myself because I have the drive and determination to reach the lofty goals I have set for myself.
I LOVE myself right now in this very moment because I have grown up into a person that I had no idea existed within me…and I am so excited to see what layers the next years may unfold!
Alison Foster says
January 8, 2010 at 8:35 amOMG- that picture is real cute. Your daughter is the perfect little cupcake of a child. 🙂 And I don’t even want to think about all the pain that went into your ink- YIKES!
I digress.
What I love about me is that I am a cheerleader for everybody. Sure, there are times when I get jealous of a great achievement that I wish that I could accomplish too, but I am genuinely happy for other’s joys and I will support them until the end of time.
Alison 🙂
Miz says
January 8, 2010 at 8:39 amno words for how I appreciate all of you for playing along.
When I blog I just write from my heart. Some days I’m not certain anyone will feel called to comment (today) yet I need to express what’s rattling around in my head.
Thank you.
Rebecca says
January 8, 2010 at 8:40 amI love myself right now because even though it terrifies me, I am going back to school to get my master’s degree. Class starts on Monday!
Shelly says
January 8, 2010 at 8:50 amHappy anniversary!
I love myself because I seem to persevere in the midst of chaos.
the Bag Lady says
January 8, 2010 at 8:51 amHappy Anniversary to you both!
How do I love me, let me count the ways…….
Well, mostly, I love myself because, seriously? Where would I be without me?
Holly L says
January 8, 2010 at 8:51 amOooh this is a fantastic and thought provoking request. Ok, I love myself no matter what because I know without a doubt that the beauty of life is inspired and painted by what my mind and body bring to it. I value that appreciation above a number on the scale or an image looking back at me in the mirror.
Kimberly Lee says
January 8, 2010 at 8:55 amI love myself because I am a ball of contradictions. I can be pulled together and polished – or a big goofball. I have a cute giggle that easily turns into side splitting deep belly laughs if I am truly amused by something. I look for the good in everyone – and am quick to defend the weak, helpless, or the wronged. I love myself because for so long I didn’t — I battled those demons and kicked their a*** — and can now show my nieces, my daughters, and countless others how to love themselves no matter what.
ashley says
January 8, 2010 at 9:00 amI love myself because I am fearfully and wonderfully made – and there will never be another person just like me! Great post and t-shirts!
Lisa says
January 8, 2010 at 9:15 amI love myself first because of the precious gift of life bestowed to me by my donor family. I was literally on the brink of death and a family, in their moment of tremendous grief, courageously and lovingly, gave me their son’s liver to save my life. I have vowed to his family that I will always give myself to others through life and love. All my decisions now are based on what is best for me and I love the self that I have become as a result. I know that when I am happy and at my best, I can love my kids, family, friends and others as I vowed.
Cindi says
January 8, 2010 at 9:24 amI love myself because I am worthy of my love, unconditionally. God put me here and gave me all the things around me and within me. I am looking outside at the world which is HIS, covered with snow and I feel His love. I can do nothing less than love myself.
'Drea says
January 8, 2010 at 9:24 amI love my stubbornness (um, persistence), a trait I’m told that I’ve had since I was a little shorty.
Love the pic of you and your daughter.
Aine says
January 8, 2010 at 9:30 amI love myself because I am kind of awesome. 🙂
Crabby McSlacker says
January 8, 2010 at 9:36 amHey, have a WONDERFUL anniversary celebration this weekend. And thanks for spreading the health-affirming, life-affirming, self-affirming messages that inspire so many of us!
And someone’s got to be the skeptical crank in any crowd, and I kinda love that that’s me. (But not about YOUR gospel, which I totally believe in.)
lisa says
January 8, 2010 at 9:37 amHappy Anniversary!! WOW!!
i love myself because i never give up.
xo
tj says
January 8, 2010 at 9:46 amHappy Anniversary! 🙂 I love that picture of you and your lil tornado! 🙂 hehe
I<3 myself (for the first time in many years) because I am determined to win my weight loss battle no matter how long it takes me. 🙂
tj says
January 8, 2010 at 9:49 amI just saw this in small print above- entire universe eligible. I chuckled thinking of you mailing a tee shirt to an alien on planet mars or something…its early here and I am goofy. lol
Terri (@teetee_71) says
January 8, 2010 at 10:02 amRight now what I love about myself is that I am LEARNING to love myself. I am learning that I am worth the self love and support. I’ve always loved to cheer on and support everyone else, but I am learning how do to that for me. I love the fact that I’ve had the ability to look past the physical and mental barricades I’ve created and can see past the blockade and see that I AM WORTH IT!!
Happy Anniversary!
Destination Athlete says
January 8, 2010 at 10:10 amI love myself because I run. Time and time and time again, I put one foot in front of the other and push myslf to do more than I ever thought or imagined that I could do. I love me because I run.
Happy Anniversary Miz!!
Quix says
January 8, 2010 at 10:17 amHappy anniversary! 😉
I’m into the self love a lot lately, so I have no trouble with this, tee hee. But when it comes down to it, I think the thing I love most about myself is my drive. When I figure out something I really want – like when I really pin down a specific goal – I am so incredibly focused and driven and trying to get me to stop is like trying to unclench the jaws of a big ol slobbery dog from his favorite toy.
Nikki says
January 8, 2010 at 10:21 amGreat advice! Timely too-
I’m taking this year(even though I don’t make resolutions) to seriously figure this one out…to be kinder to myself…to be more accepting…and yes, to love myself too!! I can see the negative affects in my marriage-good thing hubby is patient!
Saying it doesn’t mean you feel it though, any tips to help the process would be appreciated?
(bntharkonen@telus.net)
Cheers
Dre says
January 8, 2010 at 10:35 amHappy Anniversary!
I love myself because I have an uncanny ability of knowing when something is wrong with someone, and can almost always make them smile.
Alice says
January 8, 2010 at 10:35 amI love myself because I refuse to stuff myself into a stereotype. I’m just me…wonderfully fabulous.
Alyssa says
January 8, 2010 at 10:36 amYesterday I went to the mailbox, passing by our complex’s man-made lagoon on the way. There were 5 ducks sitting on the bank, but when they saw me, they jumped in and swam over. ‘Cause they knew I’d feed them.
I LOVE that the ducks and geese recognize me!
Strange? Perhaps. Am I a sucker? OH YES! But I love it.
I have a big, soft heart. And I love myself for it.
Happy anniversary!
Michelle@Eatingjourney says
January 8, 2010 at 11:06 amall over the world…oz needs some of the Miz love.
Dr. Mo (@footdr69) says
January 8, 2010 at 11:11 amI love myself because…..THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NOONE ELSE ON EARTH I’D RATHER BE!!! 😉
Stephanie says
January 8, 2010 at 11:18 amI am so impressed with all 78 of these commenters sharing why they love themselves.
I love myself because I do not give up.
BODA weight loss
Shelley B says
January 8, 2010 at 11:19 amHappy Anniversary, Miz and Ren!!!
I love myself because I have become the person who keeps trying. Doing a box jump this week was a huge step (haha, literally) for me and it proved to myself that I CAN DO anything, eventually.
Eve says
January 8, 2010 at 11:21 amI remeber seeing a tweet of yours once where you said you wake up each morning and choose to be married.
I wanted to let you know that changed my marriedlife.
Ruth says
January 8, 2010 at 11:33 amI love myself because I’m endlessly optimistic and I never give up!
Elisabeth says
January 8, 2010 at 11:34 amWhy WOULDN’T I love myself?! I’m awesome.
And it’s funny that I just cringed at myself when I said that!
Karen (KCLAnderson) says
January 8, 2010 at 11:42 amHappy Anniversary! You and Ren are just a year ahead of Tim and me (we just celebrated 12 years married, 15 together).
Just four short years ago I couldn’t say “even though I am overweight, I love and accept myself”. It was my very first EFT (emotional freedom technique) session.
Today, I love myself most of all and the reason I love myself is because I am me and there is no one else like me and I bring value to myself, to my husband, to my friends and family and ultimately to the rest of the world, just by being me.
Mary :: A Merry Life says
January 8, 2010 at 11:53 amBecause I’m fucking awesome.
Becky says
January 8, 2010 at 11:57 amThis is why I love myself:
http://ootoberfest.blogspot.com/2010/01/shout-out-to-myself.html
Lanie D says
January 8, 2010 at 12:03 pmWhat do I love?
I love that I am a woman of integrity, and what you see is pretty much what you get. I have no interest in games or politics because life is too short.
I love that when I decide someone is family, or when it comes to my family, they get all of me. I can handle the tears/frustrations/joy/laughter. Bring it on because I know how to draw boundries when I need to as well.
I love that I have learned how to find the silver lining in almost any situation. If I can learn something from it, grow from it, make connections…well then the situation wasn’t nearly as cruddy as it might appear on the surface. I love that being that positive is empowering.
I love that I know how to cook, a little random, but I still love it.
Abby says
January 8, 2010 at 12:55 pmI love that I’m carefree and somewhat scattered brain. I’m more concerned about people than tasks!! I think that’s important for healthy relationships!
Janna says
January 8, 2010 at 1:04 pmI love that no matter how much I think I screw up, I can get up the next day and move on and tackle it head on!
runnin4fun says
January 8, 2010 at 2:10 pmI work hard,genuinely care about others,and try to make life good for my family. I feel I have, and still do, make a difference in other people’s life. I love my life and I love being me!
marzipan says
January 8, 2010 at 2:30 pmcutest. picture. ever.
and, of course, a wonderful message.
xo
Ellie says
January 8, 2010 at 2:45 pmI need that tee as the very thought of wearing it in public gives me a panic attack 😉
Nia says
January 8, 2010 at 2:53 pmI love myself for standing up to my stalker and coming out victorious after fighting for justice for 3 years.
Thank you for inspiring me every day! I proudly wear your bracelet everyday as a reminder that I AM worth it.
Rachel says
January 8, 2010 at 3:06 pmI love myself for being a well-balanced woman, and for being able to smile while 10 months pregnant 🙂
Delle says
January 8, 2010 at 3:07 pmI love myself right now because even though I was moody and unhappy, I did my workout today. I also did it early enough so that I’d have time to go out and shovel the snow so that the kids coming home from school wouldn’t have to wade through the snow on my sidewalk. I love myself because even though I was tired from working out I still enjoyed shovelling the snow and made a point of having fun while I was doing it, and was singing and being silly even though there were people out and about and looking at me. 🙂
s says
January 8, 2010 at 3:52 pmok… i love myself because i continue to work on the things i don’t particularly love about myself.
or if that’s too circular, i suppose because i am good at learning technology.
Kristin says
January 8, 2010 at 4:22 pmI love myself because I can, and do, laugh at myself… all the time.
Jody - Fit at 52 says
January 8, 2010 at 4:28 pmYou always amaze me Miz! You know I have trouble with this as I have said to you in comments & my own posts. BUT, I can say that for today I love myself for the courage to do that boxing & kickboxing! I was scared to make a fool of myself but I did it & survived it! Well, with some bruises to the shins!
Crap, I probably need this shirt just so I would wear it, look in the mirror, say it to myself, live it & hopefully start believing it!
Happy Anniversary to you! Have a wonderful celebration!
Katie says
January 8, 2010 at 4:31 pmI love myself because I am mentally and physically strong. And I am not afraid to admit when I am feeling less strong and need help (which sometimes takes mental strength).
And I love you for giving away such an awesome shirt and encouraging your readers to think about this!
charlotte says
January 8, 2010 at 5:04 pmI love myself because I believe in my innate worth as a human being. Tautological? Perhaps. But true nonetheless. And also, I love myself for being commenter #100! How auspicious!
Jill says
January 8, 2010 at 5:16 pmI have a great laugh and I’m not afraid to use it! Oh – I also have pretty feet. Especially when my toes are painted 🙂
Alissa says
January 8, 2010 at 5:26 pmI love myself because I am capable of anything that I set my mind to. My body is capable of so much. I can run, sing, dance, laugh, hug, kiss. My body, no matter how much I like to be hard on it, is absolutely amazing! I love myself!
Lori says
January 8, 2010 at 5:26 pmI think that it is incredibly wonderful that you can honestly say that you love yourself. It is something I struggle with every day. It is hard. How positive of a post that was! Thank you for sharing!
(oh and I would love to win a shirt!)
Eve says
January 8, 2010 at 5:30 pmI love myself, because I look at the glass half full in any circumstance, and always cheer people up when they are down
Cynthia (It All Changes) says
January 8, 2010 at 5:36 pmWhen I finally came to love myself my marriage got better and I got to a happy place in me. I didn’t need to lose weight I just need to be me. The weight fell off after I got to this point.
natalee says
January 8, 2010 at 6:04 pmI love myself as its the only way I can love others and give love. I also love my failures. That’s how I roll now. What a great post!
Debra says
January 8, 2010 at 6:16 pmI love myself because I am smart as a whip and have a great smile.
chandra says
January 8, 2010 at 7:17 pmOne (of the many!) reasons I love myself is because I am optimistic. I like to see the good in people, look at the bright side of situations – see the GOOD and HAPPY in life and people. And I’m pretty damn fun too. 😉
Happy anniversary!
G.G. says
January 8, 2010 at 7:22 pmHappy anniversary!
I love myself for still thinking I can change my life, past experience to the contrary:-S
seekatyrun says
January 8, 2010 at 7:38 pmI love myself because I AM WORTH LOVING!
Diane Fit to the Finish says
January 8, 2010 at 7:57 pmHappy Anniversary to you!!
I love myself because I’m generally patient, even when things are going crazy around me.
jenn says
January 8, 2010 at 8:49 pmHappy Anniversary!!!
I love myself because I do whatever I put my mind to – I don’t take no for an answer. In fact, if you tell me “no”, that just makes me work harder to prove you wrong!
Osa Morena says
January 8, 2010 at 8:52 pmI love myself because at fifty-something, I have finally come to believe that I am entitled to be fabulous! And because I have sturdy, stalwart legs that are built for endurance; they’ve gotten me this far. 🙂
Michelle D says
January 8, 2010 at 9:13 pmI love myself because I changed my life. I turned 18, grabbed the reins and *galloped?* away from the danger zone of being morbidly obese. :]
Barb says
January 8, 2010 at 9:36 pmHappy Anniversary!
I love myself because I’m taking care of me!
Running Knitter says
January 8, 2010 at 9:43 pmI love myself because I finally know that I can get through anything – and survive!
Steve@ Weight Loss Weapons says
January 8, 2010 at 9:51 pmI love myself because no matter how many times I fail or get knocked down I always get up.
I love myself because no matter how bad I may be feeling I can still make someone else laugh (and that cheers me up)
Finally I love myself because I deserve it!
Happy anniversary to you and your husband. My wife and I are going on year 9 and it’s awesome.
Steve
Diane Stokes says
January 8, 2010 at 10:14 pmWhat an adorable picture (I love your shirts)
I love myself because at 43, I am in better shape and feeling more fit than I have in well over 10 years. Exercising daily and eating healthy has really given me new life.
Jo says
January 8, 2010 at 11:05 pmI’m going with what popped into my head immediately when I read your question:
I am fan-f*cking-tastic.
That was my initial thought. And I’m not arrogant and I don’t swear in public, but I that’s how I feel about myself rightinthismoment! And I’m being unapologetically honest. =)
GeorgiaMist says
January 9, 2010 at 10:17 amI love myself now because I’ve finally learned to GIVE to myself without feeling guilty that I might be taking away from others!
outofthemist AT gmail DOT com
Mendie says
January 9, 2010 at 10:38 amI love myself because I am my Mothers only child…and I owe it to her to be the best I can be!
JessicaE says
January 9, 2010 at 11:30 ami love myself right now because I am keeping my head up and trying to remain positive despite some challenges right now.
And how fitting that the giveaway winners will be announced on my 25th birthday 🙂 Thanks so much for the chance to win such a great shirt, MizFit.
Alyson says
January 9, 2010 at 12:03 pmI love this post! Not much else to say, that motto is perfect 🙂
Jenny says
January 9, 2010 at 12:08 pmWhen I want something or believe in something, I go forward with it whole-heartedly. I have passion.
Kimberley says
January 9, 2010 at 12:57 pmI love myself because no matter the circumstances, I will ALWAYS make it through to the other side.
I am also in love with that pic of you and the Tornado!
Happy Anniversary!!!
nancy says
January 9, 2010 at 3:17 pmI love myself because I AM…no reason in particular which is great progress, I used to think I had to be good at something or look just right to be loved but I am loveable just for being me…by me and by others! Happy New Year to All!
Shannon Fab Fattie says
January 9, 2010 at 3:31 pmHappy Anniversary!
I love myself because- I have finally found love and acceptance for who I am… a strong capable woman.
Lola says
January 9, 2010 at 5:02 pmHappy Anniversary! I’ve been with my hubby for 17 years this year (married for 9). I cannot believe its been that long. :o)
I love myself because I am not a quitter. I love myself because I am a survivor.
erin says
January 9, 2010 at 5:17 pmI love myself because there is no one else like me. I love myself because I can find a way to laugh at almost anything.
Kelly says
January 9, 2010 at 7:33 pmHappy Anniversary!! 🙂
It has taken me a while to learn to love the person I am. I always thought that if I lose this weight I will finally like myself. But the person I truly am will be the same person I am when I lose the weight.
What I like about me is my sense of adventure and my ease with being myself even when others think it’s “not cool.” I love trying new things and having fun. I don’t care about fashion rules are what is considered “correct.” I am me. I am so thankful that the man I married love me for who I am and always will be. 🙂
Ashlea says
January 9, 2010 at 9:10 pmI love myself because I never give up on myself. Ever.
Myra says
January 9, 2010 at 11:46 pmhappy anniversary! I love myself because I am kind. Honestly, I don’t love myself as much as I should, but I fake it really well.
I have a poster I used to have hanging on the wall of my room Picture Snoopy dancing with his head up singing “I am the sunshine of my life” thats where I was….I’m on my way back.
Debra says
January 10, 2010 at 7:10 amHAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!!
Heather says
January 10, 2010 at 8:17 amHappy Anniversary!
I don’t know why.. I just do.. and it’s the unconditional kind of love!
jeepjenn says
January 10, 2010 at 9:13 am(Because I know you like poetry…) and in the words of Bif Naked:
I’m lookin’ in the mirror and I like what I see:
I’ve lost the fear & the horror that’s been eating at me
‘Cause being with you is like a hangman’s noose
I was living my life in dead man’s shoes
I’ve had enough. Made up my mind
I’m gonna get up and out and wahhh!
I love myself today
Not like yesterday
I’m cool, I’m calm
I’m gonna be okay! Uh huh
I love myself today
Not like yesterday
Take another look at me now
Cause it’s your last look
Your last look forever!!
I love this song…It’s called I Love Myself Today and to me it’s very powerful. I don’t look at it as a relationship song, but as a “I got rid of that little negative voice in my head” song.
Hanlie says
January 10, 2010 at 10:36 amHappy Anniversary!
Getting to the point of loving myself has been a battle of epic proportions, until one day I realized that I just needed to stop fighting and accept. I love myself for never giving up on myself and for always being optimistic.
Annabel @ www.FeedMeImCranky.com says
January 10, 2010 at 12:24 pmGreat post, Miz! and happy anniversary!
I love my overly pensive and sometimes melancholy disposition. Using pain as fuel for my creative outlets has been a gift and free therapy!
<3!
Alicia says
January 10, 2010 at 6:11 pmI love myself because God loved me first and he has promised to never leave me or forsake me. (1 John 4:19; Romans 8:38-9). Also, I love myself because I can spend time with myself, with only myself, and genuinely, deeply enjoy that time.
Lucinda says
January 11, 2010 at 12:49 amYay!
Universal. Aha, I have a chance.
Whoot 😉
Rose says
January 11, 2010 at 8:55 amI love my ability to listen and connect with others. I learned it from my father, and it’s something I hope to never let go.
Swimmergirl says
February 2, 2010 at 10:45 amI found your site because I’m trying to figure out if it’s ok to love myself. I have to tell you that after reading all of these comments, I can tell that it’s not only ok to love myself, but I’m so excited to start loving myself!!
Thanks for changing my life today!!
JJ