Want some MizFit on yer thursday? Im talking exercise & caught on security cam. over at JackSh*t‘s place.
Before you go, however, please to enjoy some Stephanie.
I’m honored and flattered to be sharing the same site as the tenacious Miz F.
I’m an admirer for many reasons.
Her quirky, funny writing style. Her determined attitude. Her fly tats. Her fitness accomplishments, of which there are many. But most of all, the fact that she discovered intuitive eating all on her own – and committed to it. In a society inundated with fad-of-the-moment diets and plastered with ads for comfort foods, that’s not such an easy thing to do. I didn’t figure it out until I had my Master’s in Clinical Social Work, had read Geneen Roth, and spent six months seeing a holistic nutrition counselor.
You might be thinking I’m a little slow. I am, with some things. But there were a few other factors at play. Namely, I was stressed as all getout – I was working in psychiatric units – and I was hooked on sugar.
Of course, the two create a feedback loop. You’re stressed, you binge, you feel awful and more stressed and you binge again. I was addressing things from an emotional perspective, but understanding the biology behind my cravings really gave me a leg up when it came time to quit. So I’d like to use this post to reach out to all of you who find yourself reaching out for the cookies, candy, soda or alcohol a little more than you’d like to.
The feedback loop I was referring to before is emotional in nature, yes, but it’s also physical.
Here’s how it works. Eating sweet things and refined grains spikes your blood sugar. After it spikes, it drops. In order to bring things back into balance, your body craves more of what spiked it in the first place.
You may be familiar with this cycle. But did you know that blood sugar also spikes when cortisol spikes?
Every time your adrenals squirt that fight-or-flight hormone – in response to stress, caffeine, and even lack of sleep – your blood sugar soars along with it. Makes sense from an evolutionary perspective. When our ancestors excreted cortisol in response to an emergency, such as running from a saber toothed tiger, they needed fuel to run, hence the blood sugar rise.
But today we’re getting cortisol surges from office politics, traffic jams, and financial woes, just to name a few…not to mention our daily cup (or three) of java. That means when your boss chews you out, and your fight or flight kicks in, a blood sugar crash is soon to follow. It’s a setup for weight gain.
So how do we approach stress eating? I mix and match from my toolbox, which I’ll share with you below.
EMOTIONAL. A stress reduction practice is IMPERATIVE! Whether it’s deep breathing, meditation, a walk outside, yoga, a good cry, hitting a punching bag, chopping wood, screaming in your car….the list goes on, and each time you get stressed may require a different approach. I see emotions much like urine and feces – they are accumulations of toxins that simply need to be excreted from the body! Take care of yourself, and get your stress out.
NUTRITIONAL. Protein: your secret weapon for stabilizing blood sugar. I know when you’re anxious you want to reach for a cookie, but the refined carbs will only make things worse. Try a handful of pecans or some homemade beef jerky. Yes, I’m serious…it’s easy to make! And while you’re at it, don’t forget that going too long without eating will also cause your blood sugar to drop. Here again, a small snack of protein will work wonders.
HERBAL. Food is medicinal. Herbs are even more potent. People who haven’t tried them are often skeptical, but remember that our ancestors were using plants as medicine for thousands of years before the allopathic approach entered the picture. Sometimes a tincture can touch stress when nothing else can. There are many calming and grounding formulas from which to choose. I am a fan of WishGarden’s Deep Stress and Sleepy Nights, but your local health food store will have plenty of options. Consult with a practitioner to find the right match for you.
Now, before you click back to Facebook, your spreadsheet, or on to my blog, stop.
Take a deep breath in through your nose and out through your mouth.
Feel your feet on the floor, and your hands on your lap.
Soften your shoulders, your scalp, your face muscles.
Breathe again.
Again. Slower.
One more time, sensing the breath traveling all the way up and down your spine.
Feel that sense of relaxation flooding your body?
There you go.
You may now return to your regularly scheduled day. Don’t forget to breathe.
Stephanie Small received her BA from Yale University, her MSW from Smith College School for Social Work, and her Certificate in Nutrition Education from Bauman College of Holistic Nutrition and Culinary Arts.
In 2008 she founded www.threesistersnutrition.com, a phone-based practice helping women create a positive relationship with food. She happily blogs on holistic approaches to weight loss, nutrition, recipes and food politics for www.9weightloss.com.
Get Fit After 40 says
May 13, 2010 at 4:08 amWow..At 3 am mind is racing and I read this..Thank you..I needed to read it..Now to absorb it..
Yum Yucky says
May 13, 2010 at 4:16 amI need to explore the whole Herbal/health connection. Thanks for bringing that up. I usually handle big-time stress that’s outta my league by ranting in prayer….ranting, not chanting.
Sarah says
May 13, 2010 at 4:49 amYou’re not at Jack’s place yet ๐
Natalia Burleson says
May 13, 2010 at 5:09 amThis post is me to a T! I notice when I don’t eat sugar, how much better I feel. Then something stressful happens and I eat sugar and this awful loop starts. I hurt my neck almost 3 weeks ago and I was in a LOT of pain. No position was comfortable, I was sleeping 15 mins at a time. I had gone 11 days without sugar prior to my neck injury. About 4 days in I caved and ate ice cream and I’m still trying to step away!
A great reminder that it’s not just mental, although there is some of that too, it’s mostly physical…I have more power than I realize….reaching for some protein!
Tracey @ I'm Not Superhuman says
May 13, 2010 at 5:40 amI give in to stress cravings all the time. I think its also psychological. Weโve been making ourselves feel better with sweets for so long, our mind assumes thatโs what will make us feel better when weโre stressed out.
Jody - Fit at 52 says
May 13, 2010 at 5:57 amI am breathing!!!!!!!!!! THX! I have a very stressful drive coming at me.. BREATH!
messymimi says
May 13, 2010 at 6:05 amThis is why I had to go cold carrot and give up refined sugar totally. It acts like a drug.
Lilly says
May 13, 2010 at 6:06 amYou are up at JackSh*t!
Just so you know ๐
Shelley B says
May 13, 2010 at 6:56 amThis is exactly what I needed to read before I go to work today…lots of uncertainties abound with a new boss and yes, my stress is a *bit* high (as evidenced by a weepy phone call with my husband last night). Deeeeep breaths… xo xo—Miz.
Mara @ What's For Dinner? says
May 13, 2010 at 7:08 amLove this… thank you ๐
Amy says
May 13, 2010 at 7:42 amoh.my.word.
this is EXACTLY what I needed to read today. well, er.. yesterday maybe.. but I doubt I would have read it with the same understanding then.
thank you. ๐ so much.
Skyler Meine says
May 13, 2010 at 9:02 amLove the article. Stress and sugar the evil s’s. More people need to understand and become aware of this vicious cycle.
Skyler Meine says
May 13, 2010 at 9:04 amLove the post. Stress and sugar the evil s’s of weight loss. It is important to be aware of this cycle and try to stop it before it start.
Alfred Crier says
May 13, 2010 at 9:55 amThank you for the article on disaster preparedness. I will have to put this into effect. Thank you!
Nikki says
May 13, 2010 at 9:59 amJust Excellent! Thanks!!
“Sugar” should be illegal just like the other nasty white stuff!! What power it can have on your life!
Would you mind if I printed this out and shared it with friends and family?
Love the deep breathing excercise!
Carmella Cozart says
May 13, 2010 at 11:23 amProtein is a must have that many don’t get enough of when attempting to pack on the mass. Thank you for a wellwritten posting
CertifiablyFit says
May 13, 2010 at 11:30 amGreat info on the cycle that our bodies go through when eating such refined sugar filled stuff.
Amada Liesch says
May 13, 2010 at 12:06 pmProtein is a must have that most don’t take in enough of when attempting to pack on the muscle. Thank you for a excellent article
Emily says
May 13, 2010 at 1:29 pmWhen I got to the deep breathing part of this post I was made aware of how I was hunching up shoulders and neck tense. That stress feeling in my gut and panting breath. It is always amazing how a deep breath can change your day and bring you back in focus!
Ann says
May 13, 2010 at 1:40 pmThanks for this!
results not typical girl says
May 13, 2010 at 8:09 pmListening to the rain, enjoying the blog and breathing. Thanks for the spiritual hug. ๐
Tanya says
May 13, 2010 at 10:43 pmThanks for this post. I know how hard it is to break the evil stress/sugar cycle.
karen@fitnessjourney says
May 14, 2010 at 6:09 amExcellent information. Stress does seem to bring an automatic response and often that response involves putting junk into our bodies. My favorite stress relieving alternative is to punch the daylights out of the sandbag he have hanging in our home gym. It’s a much better alternative than sugar. Lots of relief,none of the side effects.
Mark says
May 15, 2010 at 8:44 amA lot of good information. Stress eating affects us all.
Pam says
May 16, 2010 at 5:58 amI treat sugar as if it were cocaine. I don’t touch the stuff. Took several attempts, but I have been sugar-free for a while now. I actually can’t remember the last time I’ve had sugar but it’s been well over a year and a half. Sugar=poison.
Sheri Cagno says
May 19, 2010 at 5:35 pmMentally, itโs really a challenge to stay focused. That has always been the hardest, most crucial element to my weight loss.