Tomorrow The Husband and The Child leave for a 48 hour trip to Chicago. I was invited. I paused (good to give illusion of consideration). I smiled (kindness always). I responded: No, thank you. The no was unexpected (The Child), not delightful to hear (The Husband), and completely my prerogative (we'll get to Bobby B. later). (it will look like this. I am very OK with this.) I ... Continue Reading