I rock at saying no and have for a long, long time. For such a long while I can barely remember when I struggled to put myself first and say the word. I was fortunate to realize early in life a misplaced yes didn't benefit anyone. It was a disservice to the other person(s) and it smeared my margins. The latter, the margin blurring, always resulted in a grumpy, resentful Carla. No one ... Continue Reading