Ive said good bye to friends, family, my reign as Austin’s Fittest mama, my BELOVED Lifetime Fitness facility, my FAVE UPS guy, my amazing tattoo artist and fellow mama-friend, and on and on…
I feel as though Ive had ample time to learn of the change, process the change, rant and ramble on all social media channels and in real life about the change and EMBRACE THE CHANGE.
Im as ready as I ever will be to leave the place Ive called home for twelve years and create a new life.
And yet, instead of looking backward and focusing on the ATX (<—-foreshadowing! foreshadowing!), Ive chosen to look ahead.
Not so much even to life in the Bay Area, but to the transition.
My yoga practice this year changed me.
Ive opened my hips, laughed and played and discovered my love of the OM—but no lesson has been as powerful as this one:
The transition is as important as the pose.
Ill be spending the next few days (weeks?) transitioning and focusing on remembering this notion.
- I will slow down and notice how the transition feels. ย
- I will allow my brain to register all the changes and not HURL myself into Bay Area life merely so I can get to the next life-pose.ย
- I wont rely on momentum to propel me into my new routine.ย I’ll allow my inner strength to slow me down and bring FOCUS to the journey not the destination.
OM OFF, People.
And, as much as I’d like to be breezy & blase and say:
I’ll catch you on the flip-side!
We’d both know that would be a lie.
So I shall end this with a more apt & honest:
…and I shall update you incessantly along the way. xo
my yammers about poses & parting, transitions & trepidation may also be found on Facebook, Instagram & Twitter
PlumPetals says
December 27, 2012 at 5:06 am“The transition is as important as the pose.”
Love it and so important to remember!
Rene says
December 27, 2012 at 5:24 amOh Miz. Really smart and wise. Good luck!
Fran says
December 27, 2012 at 5:25 amHave a safe trip Miz.
Angela @ Happy Fit Mama says
December 27, 2012 at 5:40 amVery important life lesson. Also BREATHE! Best wishes to you and your family with this transition!
Amanda @RunToTheFinish says
December 27, 2012 at 5:43 amGoing to bookmark this to read when our move happens!!
MizFit says
December 27, 2012 at 5:57 amI cannot say enough (or well apparently as when I reread this it isnt emphatic enough to me :-)) how LIFE CHANGING this perspective is.
I long to rush through to the “good part”
I crave the “routine in our new city” time when I reflect back and think HUH! DID I EVER *NOT* HAVE A ROUTINE AND FRIENDS AND…HERE?
Im embracing the transition.
The movers called.
They are now coming today to dismantle and TOMORROW for pick up.
The transition shall be even longer than anticipated.
YAY (<-----WINK)
Barbara says
December 27, 2012 at 6:03 amYou are going through an EXTREMELY big change. Yoga has taught you to embrace each moment and that will be a good thing.
I am so glad you will update us along the way. You’ll take us all with you via the interwebs and we’ll cheer you on through all of it!
I think you will be surprised how easy the old routines will translate. Just might need a bigger coat for those playouts!
Hugs to you! You’ve GOT this!
lindsay says
December 27, 2012 at 6:03 amoh i am selfish and want to you stay. I wish i could come see you before you go today. Please text me if you have any free time.
p.s.
your transition will be your biggest strength…. think balancing stick, tricky but manageable if you are patient and focused.
xxoo
MizFit says
December 27, 2012 at 6:06 amI am heading back to urgicare this morning as the TRANSITION be fraught with COUGHING which is threatening to topple us but WONT ๐
Ill be here all tomorrow, Lindsay, helping (ok watching :0)) load the trucks!
Coco says
December 27, 2012 at 6:26 amThis is excellent. I’ve sort of learned the same thing from running. While sometimes it is great to be done, the point of going for a run is to be out running. ๐
Kerri O says
December 27, 2012 at 6:55 amHUGS
Kat says
December 27, 2012 at 6:56 amTear! Ill still need your travel advise when we visit in march, but also haven’t been to SF yet either!;)
Christine @ Love, Life, Surf says
December 27, 2012 at 6:59 amOh man, I love this post because it so speaks to me. I sooooo rush through the transitions because I want to be in that next pose/stage where I can feel firmly planted on my own two feet settled and not floating through the air transitioning. Best of luck with the move and the transition. Breathe Breathe Breathe. Safe travels.
Laura @ Sprint 2 the Table says
December 27, 2012 at 7:01 amGood luck with the move and transition! How exciting!!!
Kierston says
December 27, 2012 at 7:09 amI think the transition (or the journey to the destination) is where we learn the most about ourselves. It’s everything that led us to that point that really is the most valuable to our growth.
Best of luck with your move!
xo
Alicia at Poise in Parma says
December 27, 2012 at 7:15 amIt’s the yogi in me saying that the Universe presents things to us when we need them. It presented Yoga to you this year knowing that you would need its lessons. Maybe you didn’t anticipate having to use them so quickly upon learning them, but isn’t it good to know that it can sink in pretty quickly? ๐
All the best to you and your clan in the move and the settling in at the new home.
Jody - Fit at 55 says
December 27, 2012 at 7:30 amSuch a wonderful post Carla! It really makes me feel the need for yoga if I could afford a class outside the gym. The gym ones are just not for me. I need away from the gym to get focused on all you write about yoga plus better classes! ๐ I am eager to hear all. I know you are being strong as well for Tornado. Moves are hard. I have been there but I also know that somehow they turn out fine once it is settled in & life grows anew… HUGE HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Krysten says
December 27, 2012 at 7:36 amOM! Breathe deep and enjoy the journey!! Excited for you guys!
Betsy says
December 27, 2012 at 7:37 amWay to embrace the change and the transistion!
Madeline @ Food Fitness and Family says
December 27, 2012 at 7:39 amGood luck with the move! You and your family will flourish wherever you set up your life.
Stephanie says
December 27, 2012 at 8:20 amLove you, love your perspective. I hope the Bay is ready for some Miz and Tornado. Forever changed it will be.
…in the best possible way.
Safe travels friend.
Linz @ Itz Linz says
December 27, 2012 at 8:38 amlove it! xoxo
maria @ lift love life says
December 27, 2012 at 8:42 am“The transition is as important as the pose.” Could not agree more. And totally agree that it parallels life. Good luck today momma, you’ve got this!
Shelley B says
December 27, 2012 at 8:45 amSafe travels, and for sure, enjoy the journey. You are really going to love it there, I just know it!
Elena says
December 27, 2012 at 9:17 amI love this for so many reasons–your optimism, your belief that โThe transition is as important as the pose”. Looking forward to the updates. xo
Potatoes and Pilates says
December 27, 2012 at 9:25 amThe blogosphere is an amazing place!
I am moving cross-country next week and am already seeing shades of rushing to be settled in the pose. I will keep this mantra in mind during the whole process.
Thank you!
Good luck to you and your fam. Not that you need it – sounds like you’ve got it covered:)
Michelle @ Eat Move Balance says
December 27, 2012 at 9:27 amGood luck! I hope all goes smoothly! ๐
Kyra says
December 27, 2012 at 9:32 amHave a safe and fabulous move!
Kim says
December 27, 2012 at 10:11 amI know (just from the short time I’ve been reading your blog) what a very strong person you are – both physically and most importantly, mentally. You will make this transition wonderfully!!!
I hope everything with the packers, movers, traveling, and the billion other little (and big) things involved in the move go smoothly for y’all!
Tamara says
December 27, 2012 at 10:37 amI’m like you. Hurry up and get back to normal. Slowing down is a goooood idea!
Safe travels my friend!
Kimberley says
December 27, 2012 at 10:41 amHave a safe and easy move!!!
Amanda @ .running with spoons. says
December 27, 2012 at 10:42 amLove.this.so.much. Life is flux – a constant transition from one thing to the next. We can take mental snapshots of individual moments, but it’s the continuous flow of those moments that make up our lives, and focusing on one specific moment makes us miss out on a host of others.
Safe journey, Miz!
Bonnie says
December 27, 2012 at 10:58 amI feel like our lives have been so full of one transition to another – most unexpected, some hard, some full of joy. We learned from a book the term “endbeginnings,” because when one thing ends and you transition to something different, it’s also a beginning of something else. I love this idea and realize there are endbeginnings in our lives all the time.
Here’s to a good endbeginning and a smooth transition for you guys as you head to the Bay Area! ๐
mimi says
December 27, 2012 at 11:40 amOne thing about transitions and big days and all that — the stuff that goes wrong is what you will love to look back on and laugh. So enjoy those things, it’s what i try to do.
Jenn@slim-shoppin says
December 27, 2012 at 12:50 pmYou are going to do great in CA!!! I’ve never moved (except for college) away from my hometown, so I’ve been in the same place my whole life!
What a great experience – I know you will kick ass there!
Sarena (The Non-Dairy Queen) says
December 27, 2012 at 3:40 pmGood luck today! I hoe the move goes smoothly and we will definitely catch you on the flip side! xoxox
Cammy@TippyToeDiet says
December 27, 2012 at 5:19 pmWishing you and your family much happiness in your new home!
Lori says
December 27, 2012 at 6:21 pmSafe journey and hope that you (and all your things) make it to your destination safely!
Tina @ Best Body Fitness says
December 27, 2012 at 6:33 pmAs always, love your perspective and can’t wait to see where all these changes take you. I have no doubt amazing, wonderful places.
Adam says
December 27, 2012 at 7:04 pmGood luck with the move. I hope you write more about the experience.
Lisa @ RunWiki says
December 27, 2012 at 7:18 pmOMG, I love you….beautiful, edgy and funny.. how do you do it my love? Sending you strength and joy as you turn the page into the chapter. xoxo
MegG says
December 27, 2012 at 7:50 pmWhile moving can be sad, it can also be so cathartic. I love this post and how you’re planning on taking the transition. Best of luck, wishing you the best in your new home!
Patrick says
December 27, 2012 at 8:26 pmI feel as if I just removed my head from the sand, when did you announce you are moving and why are you moving?
Best wishes for a smooth moves and with the adventures that your new world will have in store for you.
'Drea says
December 27, 2012 at 11:08 pmI would so be in the hospital if I tried to do a headstand in a chair…Safe travels…
Jen says
December 28, 2012 at 6:01 amOM……
Wishing you a very happy and safe transition to your next venture with the family.
Brittany @ Delights and Delectables says
December 28, 2012 at 7:03 amGood luck with the move and transition!! Can’t wait to see all the fun changes that are coming your way!
Tami@Nutmegnotebook says
December 28, 2012 at 8:21 amWhat a beautiful way to approach your move. I didn’t want to move to Northern Ca 23 years ago when hubbies job brought us here and now I can’t imagine living anywhere else! Wishing you all the best, safe travels and good times along the way.
KCLAnderson (Karen) says
December 28, 2012 at 9:13 amGodspeed to you and yours…
Dr. J says
December 28, 2012 at 9:50 amI’ve made several moves in my life because of all the schooling I’ve had. Some were easier than others. Some took me places, and others took me away from places.
I wish you well, Carla!
Khaled says
December 28, 2012 at 10:01 amHave fun on your new adventure. I will be following your updates.
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Deb says
December 29, 2012 at 2:09 amAs I’m following your move on FB etc, I notice that you ARE focussing on the transition and the move itself (although stressful) seems part of the whole adventure.
Deb
Carrie@familyfitnessfood.com says
December 29, 2012 at 8:55 amTravel safely. Wishing you and your family a fabulous new year in awesome California ๐
Roz@weightingfor50 says
December 29, 2012 at 4:16 pmHi Carla, welcome to the west coast!!!! Wishing you and your family NOTHING but happiness in your new home! Hugs and best wishes for 2013!!!
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Shannon says
December 29, 2012 at 9:06 pmBeen out of the loop but got updated by someone who is very excited to have you living close to her. Change as hard as it may be is good it’s growth. Best of luck in your new home!
Geosomin says
December 30, 2012 at 1:48 pmSafe travels – hope the move goes well. ๐
A headstand on a chair with wheels…I’d be doomed if I even attempted. Wheels + me = doooooom!
Happy holidays ๐
Lia @ Sojourning says
December 30, 2012 at 5:15 pmWell, we’re all here to support your transition and be super excited for you to grow and learn in a new environment! I hope you have a smooth transition and fall in love with the Bay Area. Cheers!
Laura @ Mommy Run Fast says
December 31, 2012 at 1:42 pmLike Amanda, I’m going to come back to read this when we move this summer. I tend to want to hurry through the transition and anything uncomfortable and just get settled. I love this analogy. Best wishes for a smooth move and many sweet surprises in the new year!
Hanlie says
December 31, 2012 at 4:23 pmI love this post! Such an important lesson. I wish you lots of joy and happiness in your new home, but also during the transition.
Jasmine says
January 7, 2013 at 1:24 pmYes, do enjoy all that comes your way with this move. I am truly hoping to do an exchange of sorts with you for this year. You come to the west coast, I go to Texas! I am puttin’ it out there and believing and knowing that amazing things can happen all in the course of a year.
You are so right to take it all in and find what is there for you in this new life, rather than force it.
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